Rebka Lile was born in Ethiopia and spent the first ten years of her life in a tight-knit neighborhood in the capital of Ethiopia, surrounded by extended family, church, and community routines that shaped her earliest memories. After the sudden death of her father, she and her siblings were separated from their familiar world, moving between her grandmother’s home and multiple orphanages before she and her younger sister were adopted by an American family in Ohio. Navigating a new country, language, and culture while carrying unresolved grief and disconnection from her Ethiopian roots, Rebka grew up balancing the expectations of a white Midwestern family with the reality of being a Black girl whose earliest identity had been left behind. Now a pre-law student and founder of Abera Adoptee Coaching, she continues to explore the intersections of adoption, race, mental health, and belonging, and looks forward to sharing the ongoing healing journey that has emerged from her experiences in Ethiopia, in America, and in reconnecting with her family and homeland.

About Rebka:
Rebka Lile is an Ethiopian adoptee, writer, and speaker whose work centers on identity, loss, and belonging in intercountry adoption. Adopted to Ohio at age ten after spending her early childhood in Ethiopia, she has spent years navigating the tension of holding Ethiopian roots, a white Midwestern family life, and a Black American identity. She is a pre-law student at The Ohio State University and the founder of Abera Adoptee Coaching, where she draws on ICF-aligned training and her lived experience to support adoptees as they process their stories and build lives of agency, community, and self-trust.