Open Adoption and Grief Can Coexist

About the Discussion:
For many people, the term “open adoption” brings assumptions of reassurance, connection, and reduced loss. While openness can create meaningful relationships and moments of healing, it does not erase the complex grief that many birth mothers continue to carry. In this special topic meeting, we will explore the nuanced realities of open adoption and the ways grief, love, gratitude, joy, longing, and loss can all exist at the same time. Together, we will discuss how openness can change over time, the emotional impact of ongoing contact, and the importance of creating space for honest conversations about the lifelong experiences of birth mothers. This meeting is open to all impacted by adoption, including adoptees, adoptive parents, professionals, and supporters who want to listen, learn, and better understand the complexities of open adoption.

Facilitators Nikki and Lindsey lead our monthly Birth Mother Support Group which provides a safe and supportive environment to help with the complexities that are often part of the adoption experience. While these meetings are usually open only to birth mothers, this meeting is open to the full constellation.

What is the scope of this group?
This peer discussion and support group is not meant to replace conventional therapy but rather serve as additional support on your personal journey to integrate your experience. The focus of this group is the emotional aspects of our journeys. For those involved in the process of search, one on one guidance and support as well as technical expertise and assistance, are available through Our Search & DNA Assistance Program at https://www.adoptionnetwork.org/service-areas/adult-adoptee-birthparents/search-and-reunion.html.

Meeting Information
This meeting is a virtual meeting led by trained, volunteer facilitators Lindsey and Nikki, held the first Wednesday of every month from 7-9 pm ET. The meeting is held via the Zoom platform (which can be accessed through a home computer/laptop, tablet, or mobile phone) and will require an internet connection or phone data connection. Registration is required and can be completed by clicking on the registration button in the right-hand corner and following the prompts.

The meetings are free and open to birth mothers. Membership in Adoption Network Cleveland helps provide the support that makes Birth Mother Support Meetings possible, and we ask all who attend to consider joining as a member at https://www.adoptionnetwork.org/get-involved/become-a-member.html.